Lately in addition to hiking and playing outdoors, the kids have found another passion-horseback riding. One request to ride a horse by Parks on his sixth birthday changed all of our lives. Since that day three and half years ago, all three of the kids have started riding horses.
Riding and working with horses has so many benefits. The horses require emotional work-you cannot bring hostility or frustration or arrogance to the barn and expect a good ride. The horses require physical work-getting the horses from the pasture, grooming, tacking up, riding, getting all of the gear off, putting everything away, and taking the horse back to its pasture. The horses require mental work-problem solving, reading the body language of the horses, environmental awareness, executive functioning.
I am a proud mama when I watch the kids at the barn. They are kind and hard-working. They have learned to set goals for themselves on the horses, and they have learned that some days they need a break and just want to ride to enjoy riding. I have seen each child gain resilience, empathy, confidence and strength at the barn.
This week, I had the privilege to watch them at their first horse show. (I have a new respect for those who participate in shows on a regular basis-wow! that is a lot of work and a long day!!) They were excited and nervous. They have never ridden around so many horses before, and they rocked it.
Great pictures! It’s wonderful that all three of them share a passion.
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It is amazing to have all three of them loving the same activity. They definitely have a special bond and get along amazingly well at the barn-now if only, I could figure it out at home too. 😉
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This is SO great! My daughter started showing this year too. It is hard work and so worth it as you know!
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This is so awesome! I rode horses in high school and college and I never really thought about it but it does provide such great life lessons. Maybe I can get my boys interested in riding some day.
I was talking to Kristina last night and she mentioned you do a bit at Latta Plantation. I saw they have some homeschool days and we are planning to attend those, but if you have anything else around town you enjoy, please let me know. We haven’t had any luck finding a co-op or any time of group yet, but hoping to meet some people that live near us on our adventures this fall. In the meantime, if you ever have any group activities that would be okay for 7 & 9 year old boys that you wouldn’t mind us crashing, please let me know! Thanks so much.
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We are having a party next Thursday at 1 at the Latta waterfront if you want to drop by. I’d love to see you!!
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Glad I just remembered to check back. Is it Thursday sept 1st? Can I email you for more details? Or email me at courtlyons@yahoo.com. Thanks so much!
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So neat! They look so skilled up there on those horses!
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That’s the nice part of blogs-isn’t it? We can all look skilled at things! No, no. They did well. They learned how much more they have to learn too! It was a fun day.
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Your cynicism is peeking through. 🙂
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Just a little! LOL. 🙂
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We loved watching the kiddoes ride and compete. They all looked very sure of themselves. Good job to all–including Mom
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They are lucky kids to have grandparents who help support them in that crazy activity! 😉
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I’M 12 years old and I own 2 horses. I agree wholeheartedly. Horses are like the greatest companion I have.
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Noah, thank you for commenting! Two horses. Wow! I am glad you love them too!!
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